By The Urban Blabbermouth
One of the crucial and most embarrassing conversations to have with your daughter is to tell her about boyfriends. One has to be sure to give her advice, otherwise she will learn on her own and make some pretty stupid mistakes. This conversation is necessarily short as men are notoriously poor at giving advice to women and father-to-daughter advice fares no better. But do be careful. Boundaries must be maintained so as not to intrude too much into her privacy or worse, to show her how you were a cad in your years as a boyfriend.
So here it is: a daughter should have three boyfriends at all times.
- Boyfriend No. 1 is for sociability. This is the guy you hang out with. He is the one who you talk to, who takes you shopping and is your best friend.
- Boyfriend No. 2 is the wallet. He is the one to call when you are spending big bucks on trips or expensive purchases.
- Boyfriend No. 3 is for the bedroom. This is self explanatory. Invoke boundary rules and tell her to call her mom.
There are other traits such as a Fixer to make lots of repairs around the house but don’t bother to look for those. That is what her brother is for, call him.