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No, No, No...No!

by The Urban Blabbermouth ~
Warren Buffet, one of the wealthiest men in the world, is reputed to have said that successful people say NO to everything.  Maybe so but that is probably because everyone is asking something from them.  But the rest of us are not wealthy enough to afford to say NO.  

I have trouble saying NO to people.  Many of us do and for good reason.  It’s not that we are weak, or easy pushovers, it's that we have learned through our genes and from our parents’ teachings to be agreeable and to cooperate. 

We as people cannot do everything ourselves, so we must cooperate with other folks.  You can succeed in life but you need other people to help you do it.  If you do not cooperate, other folks will not cooperate with you.  If you say NO, then other folks have the right to say NO to you too.  That is what scares …